Wednesday, August 3, 2011

I really like this girl and I have told her so, I don't think she feels the same but should I try ask her out?

Hey. From what you've written, its hard to tell if she likes you or not. BUT.. I mean...she didn't act weird about it. She didn't say she DIDN'T like you. The problem here is communication. After you told her how you felt...you talked to her after a MONTH. I mean even if she DID like you...what was she supposed to do? You guys didn't talk for such a long time. My advice is to try to see her in person... I know its hard but you HAVE to make the effort. You have to be a bit forward or nothing will happen. Also, you have to show her you're a CONFIDENT guy. So my advice is...try to see her more in person...and yes...ASK HER OUT. You see...you told her she was beautiful and kind...thats a compliment..that doesn't mean you asked her out or told her you are attracted to her. So basically...stop being cute...instead...be more honest (but casual). Girls like getting compliments...but they go out with guys who are confident enough to say whats on their mind and ask them out. Next time..don't give her a compliment...just ask her out. Shes a girl...even if she likes you...shes not going to ask YOU out. Be positive...and just do it. You have nothing to lose here. Good Luck!

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