My father has pancritic cancer hehas taken very ill and has styed at home with the support of macmillan nurses?

I'm so sorry to hear about your Father and sister...I had breast cancer as well, and it is always in the back of my mind. Yes, he can still hear you. Please don't stop talking to him, he really DOES want to answer you but can't. If he is on morphine right now, give it a week or two...it won't be long now.